How to Overcome Rejection

Rejection is undoubtedly one of the most thorny and difficult issues in human relationships and every human being experiences it at different stages of life and in several personal areas that affect current and future behavior.

Rejection occurs for different reasons, but in general it happens because a person’s subconscious mind sets up barriers of protection against the information it receives from another person or the medium in the form of spoken messages, acts, thoughts, and emotions.

We all feel the rejection in different areas of life: in business, in love, in friendships, in work, in daily living with neighbors, etc., and undoubtedly the effect it causes depends on the form in which we manage or administer it. Read more

The Myths of Success

In our society there are several myths about success that exert a strong influence on the minds of many people who think in a programmed way according to these models of information losing profitable opportunities and unconsciously self-limiting because they believe they are doing the right things in opportunities and personal accomplishment, family and social fulfillment.

The myths of success are mainly due to old ideas that have been handed down from generation to generation and which, by not questioning and changing them, govern and manipulate the wills of individuals and give no chance to see the opportunities offered by life, which they always do part of a process of change that reigns throughout the universe. Read more

Opportunity and Risk Two Intrinsic Factors for Success

Opportunity and risk are intimately related in any human process that leads to success, and this is part not only in what has to do with economic or professional achievements, but in any field of action that affects the quality of life of man. For many people the opportunity goes unnoticed because the risk entails an adventure and for many it´s a warning of problems and difficulties, which translates into their minds in losses, failures and uncertainty.

And this happens particularly in the economic field where the risk of obtaining a result that few have achieved or should be achieved differently than most people do by social conditioning, is a great challenge and a whole headache for a large majority of people.

As we said in previous articles, opportunities usually do not appear by the way Read more

The Importance of Believing in What We do not See

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Believe in what we can not see has always been a challenge to the human nervous system, which is determined to show that what it is detected with the five senses: sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell is the total reality of what exists. But nothing is further from a logical and objective reality.

The total reality is an infinite number of sense impressions and our brain and nervous system are far from having such power of perception and although we can filter a lot of information both consciously and subconsciously, it is still a very simple approach to the myriad of information and interacting elements in the universe both in time and in space.

Believing in what is unseen is not a dreamer, fanatic, naive, ignorant or fetishistic Read more

Frequently Attitudes Before Defeats and Failures

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For humans in dealing with the defeats and failures is generally not a simple or easy matter. Despite all the work that positive thinking can develop in the minds and hearts of those who are tested on their projects and ambitions.

This is mainly due to losses and failures are part of a series of tests in a sometimes uncertain universe since it has an unknown number of possible variants which show weaknesses in people or sudden and unknown changes that seem to stifle the good intentions that they have at any given time.

But those who make an anchor of positive thinking to solve the hard times are far better equipped than those who do not use it because this approach provides greater tranquility and less wear during the process. Read more

The Importance of an Adequate Mental Diet

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Mind like body needs food often but this requires appropriate information that strengthen, nurture and develop to live and to produce abundant fruit, which is known as adequate mental diet.

In our society the concept of mental suitable diet does not exist as such and the persons are left to choose in agreement to their level of education, expectations before life and free will that information serves or does not serve them to develop in a positive, mediocre or negative way as human beings.

The food of the mind is the information coming to it through different channels: pictures, sounds and even sensory impressions such as taste, touch and emotion.

The information problem is that the effect that it provides is more than 95% through subconscious thoughts, intense emotions and repeated acts developing Read more

Effective Communication

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Effective communication is the basis of successful human relations in any environment where man must interact with his peers. And although the term could be understood explicitly in what has to do with the spoken messages, effective communication involves a range of more complex elements.

Effective communication is defined as the correct and responsible use of all elements and channels of communication.This means not sending conflicting or ambiguous messages to a person or group of people who dismissed the image and respect of the issuer.

Effective communication involves four determinants in the transmission and proper assimilation of the messages we give: Read more

The Good Purposes and Desires vs. The Mental Programming

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There is a huge discrepancy between what many people want and what they actually get. And this is based between the conflict that arises between their good intentions, desires and the mental programming they have.

Any time of year shows this in a more telling way as the passing of the old year to the new year on December 31 where many people get fantastic illusions with new purpose and desire for change, but with a mental programming that is far to support these illusions and life changing.

From promises of exercise, diet, get a date, leave a vice or bad habit, get a better job, more money, travel, wedding, etc., and this emotional impulse is sponsors with grapes, good food, liquor, charms, omens and fetishism and the excitement of Read more

Workaholism Causes and Treatment

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The work is undoubtedly one of the greatest privileges that have the human being to be useful to himself and to society, but when it is not done for the right reasons and in balance with other highly important human areas to have an adequate  quality of life can become a dangerous enemy and a serious psychological condition known as work addiction or workaholism as it is known in the English language.

Workaholism is a desperate attachment to the labor activities and its causes or actually hides a series of psychopathological factors as: fear of loneliness, nonconformity taken to the extreme, escapism of an unfulfilled life in many ways, complex and this usually makes the worker takes refuge in an apparent and exaggerated good work performance which is certainly not as good as it looks many times and can cause serious Read more

Strategies to Increase Creativity

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Creativity is definitely the main quality and condition to break habitual patterns in life that limit the results and the right that every human being has to live a quality life and make significant contributions to society.

Creativity requires above all the willingness to innovate, either to improve what already works to bring it to new levels of performance or invent new processes, products or services to meet personal and social needs unmet.

Unfortunately, our modern society has such a level of distractions, established routines and obligations for a normal person’s that creativity is a difficult mental condition to practice and implement frequently.

Every day there are situations that require us to be creative and break established patterns. From simple situations such as Read more

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